⁉️ What are Cognitive Distortions?
Cognitive distortions are irrational or biased ways of thinking that can lead to negative emotions and behaviors. These distortions are often automatic and can affect how individuals perceive and interpret situations / view reality.
👎🏻 Negative Impacts from Cognitive Distortions
😰 Increased Stress and Anxiety: Persistent negative thinking can heighten stress and anxiety levels.
😢 Depression: These thought patterns can contribute to feelings of hopelessness and depression.
😟 Low Self-Esteem: Constant self-criticism can erode confidence and self-worth.
🥺 Relationship Strain: Misinterpretations and assumptions can lead to conflicts and misunderstandings.
😪 Reduced Motivation: Negative thinking can diminish motivation and lead to procrastination or avoidance.
📔 Common Cognitive Distortions
All-or-Nothing Thinking
Also known as black-and-white thinking / polarized thinking , is where you see situations, outcomes, or yourself in absolute extremes, with no middle ground.
Example: “If I don’t get an A on this test, I’m a complete failure.”
*Instead of recognizing that a lower grade can still reflect effort and learning.
Overgeneralization
Where you draw broad, sweeping conclusions based on a single event or limited evidence, applying it to unrelated situations.
Example: “I messed up this presentation, so I’ll never be good at public speaking.”
*Instead of recognizing it as one isolated experience that doesn’t define all future outcomes.
Mental Filtering
Where you focus exclusively on the negative aspects of a situation while ignoring or dismissing the positive ones.
Example: “Everyone hated my presentation because one person gave critical feedback.”
*While ignoring that others praised your delivery and content.
Disqualifying the Positive
Where you reject or dismiss positive experiences, feedback, or achievements by insisting they don’t count or aren’t meaningful.
Example: “They said I did a great job, but they were probably just being polite.”
*Dismissing genuine praise instead of accepting it as valid.
Jumping to Conclusions
Where you make negative assumptions without sufficient evidence, often involving two sub-types: mind-reading and fortune-telling.
Examples: “They didn’t reply to my message because they’re mad at me.” (mind-reading) / “I’ll mess up this interview, so there’s no point in trying.” (fortune-telling)
*While ignoring all the other potential reasons / outcomes.
Catastrophizing
Where you assume the worst possible outcome or exaggerate the severity of a situation, often imagining it as a disaster.
Example: “My arm is tingling, I must be having a heart attack.”
*Instead of seeing it as a normal bodily sensation.
Emotional Reasoning
Where you interpret your emotions as evidence of truth, assuming that because you feel something, it must be factually accurate.
Example: “I feel anxious about this meeting, so I must be unprepared.”
*Instead of recognizing that feelings don’t always reflect reality.
Should Statements
Where you impose rigid expectations on yourself, others, or situations, often leading to guilt, frustration, or disappointment when they aren’t met.
Example: “I should always be productive, or I’m wasting my time.”
*Instead of recognizing that rest and downtime are also valuable.
Personalization
Where you blame yourself for events outside your control or take excessive responsibility for negative outcomes.
Example: “My team didn’t meet the deadline; it’s all my fault for not motivating them enough.”
*ignoring factors like workload, external dependencies, or team dynamics.
⚒️ Taking Action
Cognitive distortions, despite their differences, can often be addressed with a generalized framework.
- Recognize the Distortion
- Pause and Identify: Notice when your thoughts feel extreme, overly negative, or unhelpful.
- Label the Thought: Name the distortion (e.g., “This is overgeneralization” or “This is all-or-nothing thinking”).
- Challenge the Thought
- Ask critical questions:
- “What evidence supports this thought?”
- “What evidence contradicts it?”
- “Am I jumping to conclusions or making assumptions?”
- Ask critical questions:
- Reframe the Thought
- Replace the distorted thought with a balanced, realistic perspective.
- Example: “I’ll never succeed” → “This didn’t go as planned, but I can try a different approach next time.”
- Replace the distorted thought with a balanced, realistic perspective.
- Look for Exceptions
- Find instances where the distortion doesn’t hold true.
- Example: If you think, “I always fail,” recall times when you succeeded.
- Avoid Absolutes
- Replace words like “always,” “never,” “everything,” or “nothing” with qualifiers like “sometimes,” “often,” or “occasionally.”
- Place the Thought on a Scale
- Rate the thought or situation on a continuum instead of seeing it as black or white.
- Example: “How bad is this, really, on a scale of 1 to 10?”
- Rate the thought or situation on a continuum instead of seeing it as black or white.
- Consider Alternative Explanations
- Ask yourself:
- “Are there other ways to interpret this situation?”
- “What would I tell a friend in this scenario?”
- Ask yourself:
- Keep a Thought Journal
- Record:
- The triggering situation.
- The distorted thought.
- Evidence for and against the thought.
- A more balanced alternative.
- Regular journaling helps spot patterns and reframe thinking over time.
- Record:
- Practice Self-Compassion
- Treat yourself with kindness when you catch a distortion.
- Affirmation: “It’s okay to have this thought; I can work on thinking more flexibly.”
- Test the Thought in Reality
- Experiment or observe:
- If you think, “Nobody likes me,” pay attention to interactions that prove otherwise.
- If you think, “I can’t do this,” try taking small steps and see what happens.
- Experiment or observe:
- Focus on the Present
- Use mindfulness techniques to ground yourself in the moment instead of spiraling into past failures or future fears.
- Set Realistic Standards
- Reflect on whether your expectations are reasonable or overly rigid.
- Adjust goals to be attainable and celebrate progress rather than perfection.
- Seek Perspective
- Share your thoughts with a trusted person or therapist.
- An outside view can help identify distortions you may not see on your own.
- Build Coping Statements
- Prepare positive, realistic affirmations to counter recurring distortions.
- Example: “Even if I make a mistake, I can learn and improve.”
- Prepare positive, realistic affirmations to counter recurring distortions.
- Practice Gratitude
- Shift focus to what’s going well, helping to balance negative thinking.
- Repeat and Reinforce
- Cognitive distortions often repeat, so consistent practice is key.
- Over time, reframing becomes automatic.
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